Sayed Kashua: Paying Attention to the Comments

photo: Karl Gabor

Sayed Kashua is well known in Israel for his weekly newspaper column and for writing the popular TV series Arab Labor. His abrupt decision to leave Jerusalem in 2014 to teach at the University of Illinois came at a time of heightened tension in the region, with kidnappings of both Jewish and Arab youth. In essays for the Guardian and the Israeli newspaper Haaretz, Kashua explained his view that "Jewish-Arab co-existence has failed." Still, he continues to write his column in Haaretz, a blend of personal stories, comedy and political commentary. The column is written in Hebrew, but English readers can now enjoy the translated collection Native: Dispatches from an Israeli-Palestinian Life (Grove, February 2, 2016; see our review below).

As someone who writes about both everyday life and larger cultural issues, do you see the "political" and the "personal" as one and the same?

I'm someone who takes politics very personally. I think I've never written anything that didn't speak to being a persecuted minority in Israel.

How do you get ideas about what to write every week?

I think it's been almost 12 years now. But I will quit next week--that's something I started saying nine years ago. It's either that I'm very, very lazy or that it's really difficult, because for me every single week is a struggle. Every week I write my last column.

But you know, if I take a week off, it feels like something is missing. So every Wednesday, I set the clock to 4 a.m. to write until 9 a.m. Every week they say, "We're waiting for your column, someone's going to die if you don't submit it!" Otherwise, I don't do it. Deadlines are the best inspiration.

Do you have any rituals or strategies that help you think of ideas?

It's a little bit different since I moved to the U.S. In Israel, you didn't really need to do much in order to be aware of what was going on. News was everywhere--the dining room, the bar, restaurants. So back then I was focusing on personal stories that could fit into current events. But here, I'm very much focused on the news--it's the first thing I do every morning, check in on Palestine and Israel. I read Haaretz,which is considered to be liberal, to know what's really going on. Then Ynet, which is considered a mainstream source, and Channel 2. I don't really trust the reporting, but they're reporting for the masses. And the New York Times.

After moving to the U.S., did anything surprise you about the way people perceive or talk about Israel?

No... I wish people would know the reality better. But still, the media and the way people talk here is less harsh than the discourse that I was used to from Israel. I'd in no way say that the New York Times is perfect, but it was still, during the Gaza war, much more left than Israel.

But I am still somewhat disconnected from what's going on here. I'm not sure how personally I take the threats of Trump, even. It's not yet my fight here. My fight for me is still back there. Even when I listen to politicians in the state, I think about what the effect will be on the Middle East.

Your columns blur the lines of fiction and nonfiction. How is fiction an important part of your effort to tell the truth as you perceive it?

I write "autofiction"--a mixture of autobiography and fiction. But I never lie. I might make something up. I use my wife and kids as characters, so I sometimes write about things they didn't say or things that didn't happen. But I never lie about important things. If I write about my grandmother, I'd never lie about the fact that my grandfather was shot in the war. I would make up a funny story about my kid going to the swimming pool, but I'd never lie about another kid saying, "Eck, they're Arabs." I think readers understand that because I've never heard anyone say, "That's a lie!" Except my wife.

You've also written novels and a hit TV show. How is writing a weekly column distinctly challenging or rewarding?

It feels like when I write a novel, I'm writing it for my editor, not for the public who are going to judge me immediately every week. I think TV writing is a little more similar to the column in that it's about addressing an idea and letting people think differently about reality. There's some kind of education or a punch line that you want to deliver.

I wrote a TV drama recently, which is a little more similar to novels in the sense that it's about different emotions. It's called The Screenwriter, and it deals with the writer of Arab Labor [Kashua's sitcom written for Israel's Channel 2]. In the first episode, he announces that he hates the show. "It's about a kind of crisis related to being an Israeli-Palestinian at the edge of 40."

The sad thing, or it's not sad--it's a reality--is that I wrote that show three years ago, started shooting in June 2014 and, in the last episode, the character moves. He enters his home and says to his wife, "We can't stay. I received this offer from a university in Oklahoma. We have to go." Usually I write things into a script, and if it works in a script, then I do it in real life. That happened with Arab Labor. I wrote that the character moved to a Jewish neighborhood, and it worked well so I moved with my family to a Jewish neighborhood.

What do you hope to work on next?

I'm supposed to be writing a novel about someone who writes commercial biographies for other people--a ghostwriter. In Israel, everyone has a story to tell and ghost writing is a big industry. They're not even published necessarily, just made for people's families. So that's the main character. Then his own father hires him to write his biography. It's the only way he can talk to his son.

Are there any responses to your column--negative or positive--that have stuck with you over the years?

It took me a while to stop paying attention to the comments. Of course, some are good, but there are also really horrible things. At first, I really wanted to quit because of the comments. But most of the e-mails I receive from people are very good. The only kind that stick are those that say something like, "I want to have a son with you." Immediately I show my wife--"You see?"

When I left Israel, I received a lot of warm messages. That I'll never forget. Some said, "Please stay, we have to fight together to make this place worth living for." Others said, "You're right, it's a lost cause. You're doing the right thing for you and your family." I heard from actors and writers from all over. Sometimes I hear from politicians, and not always left-wing, either. --Annie Atherton

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