Esther Ifesinachi Okonkwo's The Tiny Things Are Heavier is an expansive first novel about a woman searching for home, love, and belonging. Sommy is a Nigerian immigrant to the United States, a graduate student in literature, a sister, a daughter, a lover, a friend--but all of this leaves her still seeking a sense of identity.
Sommy left for graduate school in Iowa just weeks after her beloved brother Mezie's suicide attempt. She feels isolated in the cold Midwest and tormented by guilt; Mezie will not take her calls. Eventually Sommy makes a few friends, and deepens and complicates her relationship with her roommate, Bayo, a fellow native of Lagos with a boisterous personality she is slow to appreciate. Then she meets Bryan, a biracial American with a Nigerian father he never knew. She struggles at first to interpret his interest: "She can't say whether he's flirting back. If he were a real Nigerian, she would know for sure."
Their relationship proceeds slowly and then, after a rocky recovery from an early challenge, quickly. Sommy finds Bryan magnetic: handsome, wealthy, and a talented writer. In their second year together, they travel to Nigeria. It's Sommy's first time home, and the first time she's seen or spoken with her brother since his suicide attempt. It's Bryan's first time in Nigeria. They search for his father, and Sommy shows Bryan her family, her neighborhood, her home. But a series of events culminating in a shocking tragedy causes Sommy to reassess her most important relationships and to call her core values into question. She is forced to consider yet again what it would mean to find a sense of belonging and home.
Okonkwo makes a wise choice to tell this story through Sommy's compelling close third-person point of view, which portrays her as anxious and exasperated, strong-willed and intelligent, cynical and devoted. She loves her home even as she works to escape it. "If life, she thinks, its surprises, the slices of deep joy contained, its ruggedness and impliability, its contradictions, the implosion of it, the nonsense of it, were a physical place, it would be Lagos." In returning, Sommy feels "the loss of a place for which to pine. She had gone home, and home did not feel like home." Through Sommy's experiences in Nigeria and in Iowa, Okonkwo asks her readers to reflect upon class, privilege, race, gender, and their interlocking power structures, as well as the importance of place to one's sense of self. The Tiny Things Are Heavier is thought-provoking and unforgettable. --Julia Kastner, blogger at pagesofjulia
Shelf Talker: In this expansive and unforgettable first novel, a young Nigerian woman seeks home and belonging in a network of troubled relationships.